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A Survival Guide to Spousal Fraud and Hidden Wealth

The Innocent Spouse Handbook

By a retired CPA auditor

Financial Defense Publishing

$49.00

PDF download · 73 pages · Letter size, printable

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For spouses who suspect hidden money

The Innocent Spouse Handbook

When you sign a joint tax return, you can be held liable for every dollar your spouse hid. This handbook shows you how to find the money, document it, and protect yourself, including how to ask the IRS for innocent spouse relief.

9

phases, in order

20+

real cases from court records

Step by step

checklists and worksheets

What’s inside

Phase 1

The gut check and securing the perimeter

Spot the behavioral shift, recover from a confrontation, freeze your credit.

Phase 2

The house audit

Mail, tax-prep red flags, and how to pull your own IRS transcripts.

Phase 3

Uncovering hidden vehicles

Crypto, life insurance cash value, “too good to be true” wealth, offshore accounts.

Phase 4

The business owner audit

Phantom loans, gift card schemes, and the documents to demand.

Phase 5

The real estate audit

Fake liens, quitclaim cons, out-of-state land, straw buyers.

Phase 6

The bank run and legal discovery

Secure the records, then use the court to force disclosure.

Phase 7

Assembling your team

Who to hire, how to vet them, and why local counsel matters.

Phase 8

Claiming innocent spouse relief New

Form 8857, the three types of relief, deadlines, and how courts decide.

Phase 9

The new baseline

Cut every tie, protect your credit and tax identity, update your estate plan.

You also get

  • A plain-English glossary of the legal and tax terms you’ll hear
  • A master audit roadmap with the key deadlines in one place
  • An evidence log to hand your attorney

Your safety comes first.

If you’re afraid of how your spouse may react, contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline before you start: 1-800-799-7233, text START to 88788, or visit thehotline.org.

Suspect a business partner instead? See The Small Business Fraud Detection Guidebook.